"and on the laptop is set the same as VGA in the laptop" — I'm positively not understand. On the laptop in the laptop (dad). By the way, Yes, dad. And on the desktop too, dad. If I take the VGA adapter with my mom, I still have the DVI cable-I will have to take — and I already have a VGA cable male to male. We father and mother do not confuse? :) My dad is with pins.